With all the talk about balance in our lives, it's no wonder we feel so out of balance at times. The media headlines scream at us to examine our priorities.
You're spending time on tasks you are not usually good at doing.
Activities are taking a lot longer than you expected.
You find yourself complaining.
You're in your 20 percent if:
You're engaged in activities that advance your overall goals and purpose.
You're doing things that make you feel good about yourself - and your contributions to your world.
You're working on tasks you don't like, but you're doing them knowing they relate to the bigger picture.
You're delegating tasks that are difficult for you to others.
You're smiling.
But I still have to do it
E-mail. Phone calls. Meetings. The car pool. Errands. Grocery shopping. Just stop and take inventory of how you're doing these things. Can you group activities together, delegate or cut down the amount of time you're spending?
80/20 tips
Here are some good nuggets, gleaned from a blog on the Results Junkies Web site:
List unproductive activities and eliminate them - or greatly scale back. Be ruthless. Say no to those things that are robbing you of your time and your life.
Spend most of your time on your most-important relationships. Only a small portion of our relationships give us the most value - generally those with whom we have a strong emotional bond (spouse, family and a few close friends). Spend the majority of your time nurturing these relationships.
Focus on creating more memorable moments in your relationships. The percentages here may be more like 95 percent to 5 percent! From all the time we spend in our relationships, there are only a few moments that give us unforgettable memories. Focus on making more of these.
Stop trying to absorb the information overload in our society today. As opera singer Jessye Norman said, "Problems arise in that one has to find a balance between what people need from you - and what you need for yourself."
Linda Arnold, MBA, is a certified wellness instructor and chairwoman and CEO of The Arnold Agency, a marketing communications firm. Reader questions or comments may be directed to Linda Arnold, The Arnold Agency, 117 Summers St., Charleston, WV 25301, or e-mailed to livinglifefu...@arnoldagency.com.
With all the talk about balance in our lives, it's no wonder we feel so out of balance at times. The media headlines scream at us to examine our priorities.
Let's face it, during this busy holiday season, we could all use more time. So why do we keep spending more time on things that don't yield results for us - and less time on things that do?
There's actually a scientific theory that explains this. You may not have heard the official name, the Pareto Principle, but I'll bet you've heard of the 80/20 Rule.
The 80/20 Rule states that the relationship between input and output is rarely, if ever, balanced. When applied to work - and extended to life - it means that about 20 percent of your efforts produce 80 percent of your results.
So where are you directing your 20 percent - and your 80 percent? This reminds me of the "urgent vs. important" grids that illustrate how many of us respond to those urgent requests, even if they're not really the important things in our lives. We do the "B" and "C" tasks, rather than the "A" tasks because they're faster and easier to cross off our lists. This gives us a temporary sense of accomplishment in the short run. In the long run, though, those ever-important "A List" items continue to mount. And the temporary glow we felt from crossing off a minor task wanes. Yikes!
I've found we often put off the "A" items because they're major things that seem so daunting. Here's a quick tip: "Chunk down" the big goal into small steps, and cross them off one at a time. The "A" item may have to be carried over into multiple days, but you'll still be making progress every day. This helps to result in the best of both worlds - that temporary glow of short-term accomplishment and the satisfaction that you're still getting closer to that overall goal.
Of all the things we do, it's kind of disheartening to think only 20 percent of them really matter. While this is a convenient theory - and an eye-opener - I believe it's meant to be a tool, rather than an absolute life principle.
"When the fire drills of the day begin to sap your time," says management consultant John Reh, "remind yourself of the 20 percent you need to focus on. If something in the schedule has to slip - if something isn't going to get done - make sure it's not part of that 20 percent."
Which reminds me of the theory of the glass balls. It notes that we're all juggling lots of balls all the time. Some balls, when dropped, bounce back. Others don't. Sometimes we let the most important things - a glass ball - drop. And then we get a wakeup call.
If you have five things to accomplish today, according to attorney/author Steve Strauss, the 80/20 Rule states that only one will be vitally important, the other four much less so.
Following are a few examples, developed by business consultant Bryan Eisenberg, of the Pareto Principle in action in the business world.
Does 20 percent of your work force produce 80 percent of the revenues?Do 20 percent of your products account for 80 percent of your product sales?Do 80 percent of customer complaints come from 20 percent of your products or services?Does 80 percent of employee absenteeism come from 20 percent of the employees?And here are some examples of the Pareto Principle in action from a personal perspective.
You're in your 80 percent if the following statements ring true:
You're working on tasks other people want you to, but they're not furthering your own goals.You feel overwhelmed.You're spending time on tasks you are not usually good at doing.Activities are taking a lot longer than you expected.You find yourself complaining.You're in your 20 percent if:
You're engaged in activities that advance your overall goals and purpose.You're doing things that make you feel good about yourself - and your contributions to your world.You're working on tasks you don't like, but you're doing them knowing they relate to the bigger picture.You're delegating tasks that are difficult for you to others.You're smiling.But I still have to do it
E-mail. Phone calls. Meetings. The car pool. Errands. Grocery shopping. Just stop and take inventory of how you're doing these things. Can you group activities together, delegate or cut down the amount of time you're spending?
80/20 tips
Here are some good nuggets, gleaned from a blog on the Results Junkies Web site:
List unproductive activities and eliminate them - or greatly scale back. Be ruthless. Say no to those things that are robbing you of your time and your life.Spend most of your time on your most-important relationships. Only a small portion of our relationships give us the most value - generally those with whom we have a strong emotional bond (spouse, family and a few close friends). Spend the majority of your time nurturing these relationships.Focus on creating more memorable moments in your relationships. The percentages here may be more like 95 percent to 5 percent! From all the time we spend in our relationships, there are only a few moments that give us unforgettable memories. Focus on making more of these.Stop trying to absorb the information overload in our society today. As opera singer Jessye Norman said, "Problems arise in that one has to find a balance between what people need from you - and what you need for yourself."Linda Arnold, MBA, is a certified wellness instructor and chairwoman and CEO of The Arnold Agency, a marketing communications firm. Reader questions or comments may be directed to Linda Arnold, The Arnold Agency, 117 Summers St., Charleston, WV 25301, or e-mailed to livinglifefu...@arnoldagency.com.
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