If any of these items have struck a chord or triggered similar lists in your own head, it may be that you have some "incompletes" lurking in your midst and robbing your energy.
Help is on the way, though. You don't have to resign yourself to that sense of purgatory anymore. And you don't have to quit your day job to get every single thing done to feel relief.
I've discovered an amazing tool for gaining the upper hand over the incompletes in my life. All it takes is a legal pad, a pen and a calendar. That's because there's tremendous power in charting a course -- the first step in gaining some semblance of control over these ever-present demons.
Here's my E-Z Plan:
Even though you may be tempted to clear everything out in the next few weeks, I'd say several months may be called for. The last thing you want to do is end up resenting the plan of progress you're designing. That could likely result in more procrastination, layered with aggressive or passive-aggressive behavior toward the new initiative.
And here's another thing. Reward yourself whenever you cross any project off the list. Rather than ruminating over the ones that are not done, revel in the ones that are done. That's a key part of the plan.
It's amazing how empowering this can be. Just getting those incompletes down on paper -- with a realistic, long-term plan to tackle them -- can help you feel more in control of these demons that are sapping your energy.
The results are well worth the extra effort. When you start trusting yourself to follow through on things, it opens up all kinds of other avenues: confidence, dependability and inner peace, all of which lead to greater enjoyment of life's experiences, without all those detractors subconsciously nagging at you.
Registration for this life course is always open -- no more incomplete grades!
Linda Arnold, MBA, is a certified wellness instructor and chairwoman/CEO of The Arnold Agency, a marketing communications company specializing in advertising, public relations, government relations and interactive marketing. Reader comments are welcome and may be directed to Linda Arnold, The Arnold Agency, 117 Summers St., Charleston, WV 25301, or emailed to livelifefu...@arnoldagency.com.